{"id":2968,"date":"2020-09-05T13:56:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T03:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eisabainyo.net\/weblog\/?p=2968"},"modified":"2020-11-09T11:39:51","modified_gmt":"2020-11-09T01:39:51","slug":"bursting-the-top-three-myths-of-public-speaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eisabainyo.net\/weblog\/2020\/09\/05\/bursting-the-top-three-myths-of-public-speaking\/","title":{"rendered":"Bursting The Top Three Myths Of Public Speaking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am an Asian non-native English speaker. I am petite and soft-spoken. Sometimes, I\u2019ll take a few seconds to reply to you because I\u2019m busy translating what I want to say in my head from my mother tongue to English. Even after leaving my home country, Myanmar, and living in an English speaking country, Australia for almost two decades, I still speak with an accent. I was often too uncomfortable and embarrassed to hear myself speak in one on one settings, let alone speak in-front of an audience. That was until a few years ago. Today, I consider myself a pretty good speaker \u2014 warm, authentic and knowledgeable. I\u2019d like to share the top three myths of public speaking and how anyone can become a good speaker.<\/p>\n<h3>You need to have perfect English to be an international speaker<\/h3>\n<p>Ted Talks had us believe that you need to have perfect English to be a great speaker. The Ted talk speakers speak so posh, with no grammatical mistake. As a non-native English speaker, I couldn\u2019t help but felt a bit inferior. It wasn\u2019t until I started letting go of my own limiting belief that I was able to allow myself to speak at major conferences. I\u2019m glad I did because it made me realize that how you deliver your content is much more important than how you pronounce a word or how you structure your sentence. A bit of a tip on how to deliver content that audience will respond well to: deliver it from your heart, with your personal experience, for the benefit of the audience.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/ext\/embed.html?id=833306737296543581\" height=\"618\" width=\"345\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"pin-left\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>You need to come up with either a ground breaking, unconventional or brand new topic<\/h3>\n<p>One of the most common reasons why people don\u2019t apply for speaking opportunities is that they don\u2019t think they have any topic to speak about. If you\u2019re one of those folks, I\u2019ve some news for you: there are always people who don\u2019t know what you know. Sometimes, the simplest topics are the most popular topics at conferences, as long as you share it from your perspective and your personal experience. One of my most well-received talks was about leadership, titled \u201cHow to survive and thrive as an engineering leader.\u201d When I was preparing for the talk, I kept thinking to myself that whatever I will be sharing was nothing new and the audience will be disappointed. I was amazed at how engaged audience was during the talk and the feedback I received after the talk. Even though it was a common topic, adding my personal experience made it interesting and entertaining.<\/p>\n<h3>Seasoned speakers don\u2019t feel nervous because they\u2019ve done it many times<\/h3>\n<p>2018 was my year of public speaking. Towards the second half of the year, I was speaking almost every month, sometimes a few times a month. I was hoping that the more I did it, the less nervous I would be. At the end of the year, I reflected on my experiences and I have to say while I\u2019ve improved on my public speaking skill by doing it many times, I still feel the nerves before going on stage. Thinking it was just me, I shared my experience with a few other speakers and they assured me that they felt the same. It doesn\u2019t matter whether it\u2019s your fifth time public speaking or fiftieth, you will still feel butterflies in your stomach and it\u2019s a good thing! Because you can then transform that nervous energy into enthusiasm.<\/p>\n<h3>Final words<\/h3>\n<p>Despite all of the setbacks, I have done multiple speaking gigs and I\u2019ve had a chance to connect with thousands of audience members. It wasn\u2019t always easy. Scratch that \u2014 it was never easy. But I know that I will do it again because I love being able to share what I know and know that I will have made an impact in someone\u2019s life by sharing my knowledge and experience. For every talk that I\u2019ll do in future, I\u2019ll always remember to deliver the content from my heart, with my personal experience, for the benefit of the audience. 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